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General Dating Advice for a First Date
In this blog post, I will give both men and women some general dating advice for a first date.
I like to call them the obvious secrets behind a successful first date.
There is undoubtedly a plethora of different dating advice for both men and women when you are browsing around the Internet today.
Don’t get me started about all the videos out there too.
Many of them claim to exploit some “loophole” in the mind of the opposite sex through psychology.
This dating advice is not like that.
Instead, this is based on my first-hand experience and will give you some examples as well as some reading tips so that you can read up about dating.
Read more below…
The Only “Loophole” I Am Going To Share
Here is the loophole: There is no loophole!
There never was, and there never will be any either.
Does this make any sense?
Of course, it does!
Every person that is talking about using a “loophole” that he or she has miraculously discovered is lying to you!
It is the undeniable truth.
I hate breaking it to you like this, but if you think about it, you will know in your heart that what I have written is actually right.
Why?
There is no such thing!
If it had been real, psychologists around the world would have helped humans to put up security protocols and fix them!
I know you are way smarter than falling for that trick.
This is the facts about the so-called “loopholes” in the human psyche (which, by the way, means soul in Greek).
Here are some more insights into why mind-games won’t work.
I also want to debunk another myth right away.
You probably dream about meeting the perfect husband or wife with impeccable manners, the ideal job, the car that will make all your friends jealous of you, the picture-perfect house, and so on.
Then, dream on, baby!
There are no such things as a perfect relationship or the ideal husband or wife.
It’s only what the film-makers want you to believe.
I know for a fact that neither women nor men would like a person that is rude and disrespectful towards them.
If your date is that, you need to go the other way.
Relationships with another human being aren’t easy, so you need to work on your relationship every single day as long as you are in a relationship with yourself and with the person you are living with.
It is a hard but honest fact!
I am now going to share with you some “secrets” behind a successful first date.
Here Are The Real Things That You Need To Do For A Successful First Date
These are just usual manners, but they do matter when you’re going on a first date.
You should know this: You don’t date with your eyes only, you’re also dating with the rest of your senses.
So here they are:
First Date Tips for Both Men and Women
- Take a shower before you go on a date.
- Comb your hair and maybe put some gel on it so you won’t change your hairstyle unintended.
- Use deodorant to smell the best you can!
- Also, have a look in your ears, and if there is cerumen, remove it.
- Trust your instincts. If something or someone seems to be too good to be true, it’s probably the case!
First Date Tips for Men Only
- Shave if your date doesn’t think that beards are a huge turn on.
- Use some lotion or aftershave to condition your skin.
- Look at your bathroom mirror, and if you have a nose- or ear hair, shave that too.
- If you have a lot of body hair, you might consider shaving that too.
- Have I forgotten anything? Please, let me know by leaving a comment below.
Want more tips on how to behave?
First Date Tips for Women Only
- Shave your legs and remove hair on your face if you have any.
- Use some makeup, so you look even prettier than you are natural.
- Use a lotion or conditioner for your skin.
- Smell your best: Use perfume or a block of soap that will make you smell even better.
- If you think there is anything I have forgotten, please let me know by commenting below.
Concluding Remarks
When you are going on a first date, you should strive to look your best and to smell your best.
Behaving your best is another piece of advice. I like to give you today.
Always keep in mind that you’re dating with all your senses, so you should consider these things before you go on a first date.
After all, it might be the only date you have with this person.
You might meet the love of your life.
Trust your instincts and remember that manners matter. It is my best dating advice for you.
Next blog post
My next blog post will be published on September the 23rd 2015.
It will be about the myth of the mysterious blond woman.
See you then,
Rickard
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