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In this article, I will share 25 flirty messages to start a conversation, build tension between you two, and get her out on a date.
Flirting is fun, and we all enjoy it.
However, when dating from a distance, you need to realize that messaging is harder than face-to-face interaction.
For starters, she will be more audacious than she would be in real life.
She might take the initiative and ask you out on a date instead of the other way around, and you might enjoy it, but unless you start flirting with her, that scenario is unlikely to happen anytime soon.
Here is what I will share with you throughout this article:
- The flirtiest conversation starters
- 5 Amazing flirty messages for her
- The tension-building messages
- Are these the best messages for her?
- The flirtiest text that turns her on immediately
In each section, I share five texts, and you can use them or not.
If you are interested in something, you can either keep scrolling or click or tap on the button below this paragraph that says “Continue reading” below.
5 Flirty Conversation Starters
I know you don’t want to send her messages.
But sometimes it is the best option, and maybe even the only one in your toolbox to start creating a connection and building tension between the two of you, especially in a long-distance relationship.
The five flirty conversation starters that I will share with you now work both in real life and through messages:
- You and the Sun have one thing in common. Both of you are smoking hot.
- You are like a twister. You just blow me away.
- I’m trying to go to sleep, but for some reason, I can’t stop thinking about you.
- Is your name Angela? Because you look like an angel.
- I am having a huge problem. I can’t stop thinking about you.
The best way to start flirting with her is to use these flirty conversation starters to make her feel like you’re thinking about her, which women like.
Before I talk about the next step, I want to share a couple of more texts with you.
For instance, you might like these flirty text messages to turn her on, which I have discussed before on this blog, since they will quickly help you get her out on a date.

5 Amazing First Flirty Messages for Her
If this is your first time visiting my blog, I will tell you I struggled to get it right, and it took a lot of testing before I got my messaging skills right.
Since I know how hard it can be, I want to share a little secret with you right away.
For some reason, you might have started sending her messages but never got a response, and that happened to me most of the time until I discovered a sneaky secret that has never failed me.
Are you ready for it?
Ask her a question, and make sure that it is a good one, like these five messages that I will share with you right now:
- Are you an angel? Because you are the answer to all my prayers.
- Has someone else told you that your picture should be next to the word “beautiful” in the dictionary?
- Roses are red. Violets are white. I am colorblind. Can I still see you tonight?
- I could say good night to you if we were in the same room, but since I know you’re reading this text, it is already a good night.
- When I look at you, I keep smiling. Do you know why?
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So far, these texts are warming her up to you, but then you need to build up sexual tension between you and her.
You can also spice things up with these 25 flirty emojis.
5 Tension-Building Messages for Her
Now that you have created that initial contact and hopefully made her laugh or created another emotion in her, it is time for the next step: To build up the sexual tension between the two of you.
Here are my best texts for building up that tension:
- I could say bless you, but I guess that I am already blessed.
- Waking up next to you every day is what I look forward to most.
- I want to look at you the next time you _____. Please, fill in the blank.
- What is cute, sweet, and sexy? You.
- I didn’t know that women could be both smart and sexy until I met you.
Do you see how you build up the tension here? The fifth message is bolder than the first, showing the process in five short messages.
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Are These the 5 Best Text Messages for Her?
In my biased opinion, they are great, but not the best.
However, some gemstones will work on most women, and that applies to every message I have shared throughout this article. Some will work, and some don’t.
That’s because no two women are the same.
What works for one woman may not work for another you are messaging, so I shared 25 tips here and even more texts in my newsletter.
Instead, I think that these five messages are the best to send her:
- Something about you just makes me smile 🙂
- Can you please stop looking so hot! You’re so beautiful that it’s screwing with my head.
- I just met a polar bear on the street. He was just chillin’ and looking for fish! Did you meet him too?
- I’m glad you’re not a diamond. I would hate cutting such a beautiful gemstone as you into pieces.
- You are stalking me! Stop thinking of me! I don’t like you thinking such filthy thoughts about me! Get out of my head!
If you want more examples of texts like the ones I shared above, you can find them in this article, where I share more text messages to get her out on a date.

The 5 Flirtiest Messages That Turn Her On Immediately
Now it is time to reveal the flirtiest messages that turn her on immediately, and if I know my crowd correctly, these are the messages you wanted to get to when you started reading.
Maybe you even scrolled down here immediately to get to the nitty-gritty details directly, and that’s fine.
I have shared many messages you can send her in the past, and I have an entire blog dedicated to this topic, but if you want all the details, you need to sign up for my free newsletter to get the woman you like.
However, here are the flirtiest messages that turn her on immediately:
- I want to pin you to the wall and kiss you all over your sexy body.
- You: What are you wearing? She: Hm. You: You look sexy to me no matter what you’re wearing.
- I had the wildest dream tonight. It was about you.
- You: What are you doing? She: Lying in my bed and touching myself.
- You always turn me on.
These messages are unique and may turn her on.
In the video, Kate Spring will share how you can make her crave you.
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I wish you a fantastic day!





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