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In this blog post, we will conclude our dating series. If you haven’t read the previous one,
If you haven’t read the previous one, you’ll find it here.
We will now turn our focus to the most important aspect of online dating. It is not about technical issues, it is not about security either or how to write anything. It is all about You.
Please note: This is a very long article with insightful tips for Christians especially.
Dating Online Is All About You
In the two previous posts we learned how to register an account (at ChristianDatingInternational.com) and then we learned how to write a great profile that will generate many visits to your profile.
We also discussed the importance of choosing a good photo that allows your personality to shine through.
Everything starts with you. This is pure fact.
There is absolutely no one else except you that can decide when you want people to visit your profile.
Dating websites, no matter which name they have or which group they focus on are all about the newest things.
The more recent things happened the greater the chances are that your profile will be the one that your potential dates will get.
So, how do you go from having no visits to having a lot of them?
Simply put: Start to flirt or wink to people that you have a genuine interest in.
Another way to achieve it is to use the search function on the dating website you are a member in.
The more advanced, the better because then you have the ability to narrow it down. If there are no people nearby, you just have to make the search a bit wider.
Do this once or twice every week and you will soon be starting to see results. Soon you will be going on several dates or maybe just one.
Now, we would focus on what Christian dating really is.
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What Christian Dating Is
Christian dating is something that we are specialized in.
This is the reason why we blog and why we have the website.
So how do we define it then and are there biblical stories that might help us to see that dating actually is something that Christians should do or should we just remain passive?
To answer the last question first: No, we should not remain passive.
God will always help us and guide us in our lives but this does not just mean that we should sit passively and just pray.
To be a Christian is a call to action in itself!
Christianity is all about relationships: one God, who rules supreme in the heavens but this God is one in the essence, three in the presences.
If you believe this, you believe that God himself has established relationships within the Divine being itself: Father, Son, and Holy Spirit.
You also believe that the same God has established relationships with humanity (The Son, Jesus) and creation and that this continues even today (Holy Spirit).
Yes, there are many people that actually are dating throughout the Bible.
They, of course, could not date online, as we can but they dated people in real life.
Here are some examples: David and Bath-Sheba, King Solomon and the Queen of Sheba, Jacob and Rachel and we could continue the list but we will make a stop here.
Jacob is a very good example to discuss online dating for Christians.
Why?
Because the story about how Jacob finally was allowed to marry his beloved Rebecca is a story of working for love.
He had to work seven years to get married, however, his uncle Laban set him up and he got married him to Leah, the oldest daughter. Laban made Jacob work for another seven years before he finally could marry his one true love, Rebecca.
Bigamy is a crime in most modern states but that is not what this biblical story tells us.
It will actually tell us that true love exists and is worth fighting for as well as that God will always guide us so that we need to take action and work to make it happen.
Remember that God is love (1 John 4:18) and that we are told to love one another (1 John 4:1). So do like Jacob did: Work hard.
Don’t give up when you have found your true love and most certainly: Take action and do what God demands us to do: Find love and trust that God will guide you.
Wrap Up
So it is time to wrap up this mini-series now.
We have established that Christian dating is not about being passive but active on the dating website of your choice. God will guide you, just as he did in ancient times.
No matter if you have a great profile, you have to do some actions: Flirt or wink and take it from there but do it repeatedly so that more members will discover you and realize your uniqueness and individuality.
God is love and we are commanded to love each other, that is all you have to remember when you start your new exciting dating experience at ChristianDatingInternational.Com.
Have a great time!
Next blog post
Our next blog post will be published on April 1st, 2015.
It will be about why it’s called fool’s day.
Until then,
The Chi Rho Dating Group
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