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5 Secret Tips to Get a Man to Open Up Emotionally

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If you want to get the sneakiest, secret tips to get a man to open up emotionally, you have come to the right article.

You are about to discover one thing that men do not want to know.

These tricks will help you get a man to desire you and love you passionately, which will make him love you more than you EVER THOUGHT POSSIBLE.

Here are all the things that I will cover in this article:

  • How to get him to open up to you emotionally.
  • Why he must open up to you, and how your relationship will benefit from it right now.
  • The ONE thing that hurts your relationship that you are not aware of right now.
  • Why he needs to be in a safe place to open up emotionally to you.
  • What it is that you need to do to make him emotionally open to you.

If you want to know all of that, you can read about it in the full article that continues below.

How to Get a Man to Open Up About His Feelings

So, what are the five secret tricks that will get a man to open up emotionally about his feelings to you?

You probably know most of them already.

However, you might never have recognized their importance for you and your relationship with men before.

If you want to get a man to open up emotionally to you, you will need to:

  1. Make him feel comfortable, and secure before he opens up to you.
  2. Make him feel accepted and understood when he finally opens up emotionally to you.
  3. Realize how he opens up to you since it will be very different from how you do it as a woman.
  4. Stop judging him whenever he expresses himself and put words to his emotions.
  5. Understand the role you play, and how you react, which might cause your relationship more harm than good.

Now, it is fine to see them on a list, like the one I have shared with you above, but how can these facts help you get a relationship with the man you are in love with?

How exactly will it help you get a relationship filled with passion, romance, trust, emotional support, and mutual respect?

1. Make Him Feel Comfortable and Secure

You must make him feel comfortable and secure if you want him to open up to you emotionally.

Since men are more reluctant to open up emotionally in public, he needs to feel that he is in a safe place BEFORE he opens up to you, and it is up to you as a woman to show him that.

If you observe his body language, you will know whether he is just leading you on or if he actually is in love with you.

However, there are 20 different signals you need to be aware of.

According to science, the average woman knows about 5-7 of them, but you need to know all 20 to be sure whether he is in love with you or if he is faking it.

I will soon share all of them, but first, I will share the other ways with you.

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You are about to discover how to connect with a man emotionally.

2. Make Him Feel Accepted and Understood

If you want a man to open up emotionally to you, he will do so in a room where only the two of you are present.

As long as you make him feel accepted and understood.

You might miss these signs if you don’t listen to him carefully since he will use different words than you would use as a woman.

Be mindful of the words he says since they will reveal whether he is really into you or pretend to be into you to satisfy his own needs without caring about you and your needs.

It is also important that you make him feel understood.

If he feels that you understand where he is coming from, and what he wants in a relationship and that you accept some of it, at least he will be more likely to fall in love with you.

More importantly, if he does not feel accepted and understood by you when he opens up to you, he will start to look for another woman to give him that.

You see, men are very insecure since we are not used to discussing emotions.

They are tucked away in a safe deep inside of our hearts where we keep them hidden from public scrutiny, except for the woman who we love.

But, how can you know that he loves you for sure?

A simple way to do it is to use the ONE basic love principle that most women completely miss.

That is, in fact, the reason why most relationships die off.

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3. Realise How He Opens Up Emotionally to You

As I already covered in some detail above, he opens up to you, but in a completely different way than you would open up to him.

It does not mean that he does not want to open up to you emotionally.

In fact, if he is in love with you, he will open up to you because he trusts you and wants to reveal to you how much he really loves you.

It is not only the words he will use but also his behavior.

His behavior will reveal to you that he is in love with you, and more importantly, his love for you is genuine.

When he becomes closer to you and more intimate, he loves you.

You will notice physically that he will seek intimacy whenever he got the opportunity to do so.

For instance, he will be more willing to snuggle with you even on weekdays.

When his behavior changes, he will also change the way he expresses himself, and below I will share a list of words that he will be using and what he actually is saying to you.

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4. Stop Judging Him When He Put Words on His Emotions

As I already discussed above, he will use different words to describe his feelings for you.

The reason is simple.

Men are not used to putting words to his emotions, and for that reason, he will use different words to describe how he actually feels for you.

I will share a list with you to help you understand what he really says.

Here they are in bold, followed by what he actually is trying to say to you:

  • I like you. Really means that he loves you.
  • You are so talented. Means that he appreciates something about you, that he thinks makes the relationship worth staying in for him. It would be something he would miss if you would break up with him.
  • You are the smartest person I know. Translation: You are the sexiest woman I know. As we all know, there is nothing sexier than intelligence, right?
  • When I think about you I always smile. This is another secret way to tell you that he loves you.
  • You make me so happy. It is his subtle way to tell you that he do not want to be with another woman, except you.

These are the five most common expressions that men use to tell them that they love you.

But, can you be sure that he is truthful when he expresses his love for you?

Unfortunately, you can not be 100% sure that he is telling you the truth unless he shows you the 5 Ways to Know If He Loves You.

Watch this video to be sure that he truly loves you.*

5. Understand That Your Reactions to What He Is Saying Matters

How you react to what he says when he says it matters too.

He will pay close attention to how you react when he opens up to you emotionally to figure out whether he should commit to you or not.

If you miss the subtle signals he sends you, he will think that it was a mistake to open up to you emotionally and that you are not the right woman for him, after all.

In contrast, if you tell him how much you appreciate him and thanking him for open up to you, he will feel a deep emotional connection with you.

That deep emotional connection will make him trust you.

As you already know, trust and an emotional connection between two people create a bond between them as a couple.

It will take time to create this bond, don’t get me wrong here.

That is, of course, unless you already know the 10 Laws of Attraction That Your Mother Never Shared with You.

It will stop you from risking the embarrassment of him leaving you at the altar on your wedding day, as well as eliminating any risk of being rejected by a man when the two of you are on the first date.

Watch this revealing video to get a relationship with a man who truly appreciates you for the amazing woman you are.*

You know that you deserve the best relationship you can ever have, right?

I also hope you realize that you are entitled to a relationship with a high-quality man who appreciates you for the unique, wonderful, and absolutely astonishing woman you are.

Am I right?

Finally, I hope that I have revealed some of the weird behaviors and conflicting emotions that men are showing you because they are in love with you in this article.

If you have found it useful, please share it with your friends.

However, if you want more details about the subtle signals that men are sending out to women that most women miss, there is one thing to help you become sure that he is in love with you or that he is not.

Watch this video now to be sure whether he loves you or doesn’t deserve your love.*

I wish you all the best,

Rickard

About the author: Rickard Is The Head Blogger Of Chi Rho Dating Since Summer 2015 And Is Also The Dating Coach Of The Dating Website ChristianDatingInternational.Com.

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