Steps You Have To Take To Achieve Online Dating Success

First of all, let me say that it is a long title; I have to confess that.

It is necessary, however, since I will discuss and give you some advice on how to be successful in your venture for finding true love.

Let’s begin, then. Shall we?

So, which steps are necessary, then?

The first and second steps are pretty obvious.

You must go to a website, like Christian Dating International.com, and create a user profile.

We in the XP Dating Team have covered how you could write a perfect profile to get people to notice you earlier.

If you haven’t read it, I think you should do it. You can find it here.

If you don’t feel that you have the time, however, here are some basics:

• Write truthfully and honestly about yourself.

Take some help from your friends to list some benefits and things you need to work on. We covered this earlier this year. Here is where you will find information about that.

There are also some helpful books that you can use. You’ll find them here.

• Take a nice picture of yourself.

Preferably one that makes your photo “pop,” like purple or blue. Red is seen as the harlot’s color and should, therefore, be avoided (although it’s also the color of the blood). Avoid red if you upload your picture to a Christian dating site like Christian Dating International.

• Send flirts, emails, and messages to people that you are interested in.

You must send them only to the profiles you genuinely are interested in.

By limiting yourself to those profiles, you will be seen as a serious and trustworthy person. The people that you contact will appreciate you for that.

If you are shy, we have made some stationaries that you may use to “break the ice.” They are the icebreaker messages. You can read all about how to use icebreakers efficiently here.

You’ll find our guide to this method here.

If you want to boost your success chances, here are some tips.

• Text chat with people

If both of you are online, make the first move and start chatting or if not, decide for a moment when both of you will go online and talk.

Doing so will establish the first contact between you and the other person. Trust your feelings; if something doesn’t feel right about the person, listen to that feeling and act accordingly.

TAKE CAUTION! DO NOT SHARE PRIVATE INFORMATION ABOUT YOUR HOME ADDRESS, YOUR BANK ACCOUNT, OR ANY OTHER SENSITIVE INFORMATION THAT CAN BE USED TO IDENTIFY YOU. ESPECIALLY NOT WITH SOMEONE YOU JUST MET ONLINE.

• Video chat with people

Please read the caution above first if you haven’t done it already.

Video chatting is something that (unfortunately) is available for our Gold- and VIP members, but this is a very crucial step that you have to take. I recommend you do it before you go on a date with someone and meet that person face-to-face. 

• Go on a date with someone.

If the video chat went well, you might have decided on a specific date and location for your date (pun intended). Dress up nicely and use a color that makes you “stand out” from the crowd, as seen above.

NOTE: THE FIRST DATE SHOULD ALWAYS BE IN A PUBLIC PLACE. YOU SHOULD LEAVE SEPARATELY, AND EACH ONE OF YOU SHOULD GO HOME TO YOUR PLACE. IF YOU FEEL COMFORTABLE, YOU MAY TELL THE PERSON WHERE YOU LIVE.

This was my last post for this time, but I will write some more later on. I know that I will be in the spotlight soon. To find out what that is, you must become a dating site member.

You can find out some more tips on our website and this site.

Thanks for reading my blog posts, guys, and good luck with finding your true Christian match!

Rickard.

Until then,

The Chi Rho Dating Team