The 7 Personality Traits Men and Women Are Looking For

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Summary

In Today’s Article, I Will Discuss What Men and Women Are Looking For In Each Other.

There Has Been A Lot Of Writing Before About Which Traits Men and Women Want To Find In Each Other On This Blog Recently.

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5 Cornerstones Of Dating
The 5 Cornerstones Of Dating: Humour, Trust Respect, Faith, And Honesty

What Men Are Looking For In A Woman

What Are Men Looking For In A Woman?

Let’s Be Honest.

Most Magazines For Women DO NOT Know Anything About What Men REALLY WANTS IN A WOMAN And There Is A Reason For This.

The People Who Write In These Magazines Are Women.

They Are Not Well-Versed In The Field Of Human Behaviour Or Human Psychology.

So They Ae Just Guessing And Maybe Using Their Own Experience.

The Truth Is That Men Are Looking For Many Different Traits In The Personality Of A Woman.

Below, You Will Find A List That Is NOT CONCLUSIVE By Any Means.

However, It Is Still Much Better Than What You Will Find In Most Women’s Magazines And Remember You Do Get This From A Guy.

The 7 Personality Traits That Men Want In A Woman

1. Respect

She Needs To Be Respectful Towards Him and He Needs To Treat Her With Respect.

Mutual Respect Is One Of The Most Important Things In A Relationship.

If You Lack Respect In A Relationship It Is Not A Healthy One and It Will Fail Eventually.

2. Character

Having A Great Character Is Also Important.

She Might Not Be The Most Beautiful Woman In The World But It Doesn’t Matter As Long As:

  • She Likes Who She Is
  • She Is Comfortable Within Her Own Skin
  • She Acts With Confidence And Allows Her Character To Fully Blossom

These 3 Things That I Have Listed Above Is Highly Attractive To A Good and High-Quality Man.

3. Intelligence

Do You Think That A Smart Woman Does Not Get Any Men?

You’re Dead Wrong!

Intelligence Is A Big Turn On For Us Men.

Just As We Men Love A Woman Who Is Comfortable, Most Men Likes Women Who Are Smart.

Intelligence Dignifies A Woman Just As Much As A Man.

4. Humour

Laughing About Things and Be Able To Joke About Yourself Or Something That Happens, Is Another Thing Of Great Importance.

Having A Great Sense Of Humour Is Vital In All Human Relationships and Especially Romantic Ones.

This Is True For Both Men and Women.

Life Can Be Tough Sometimes and Then You Need Someone Who Can Crack A Joke, Lighten Up Reality, and Cheer You Up When You Need It.

5. Independence

A Man Do Not Like A Woman Who Is Totally Dependent On Him Unless He Is A Control-Freak Or A Psychopath.

Here Is How You Identify A Psychopath.

You Need To Be Independent and Have Your Own Friends and Hobbies.

Otherwise, He Will View You As A Clingy And Needy Woman And That Is Nothing You Want Because That Is A Relationship Destroyer.

If You Do Spend All The Time Together, You Will Grow Tired Of Each Other.

So Independence Is A Good Thing.

Some Common Interests Are Also Needed To Strengthen Your Relationship and Bond Between The Two Of You.

6. Honesty

Another Thing Relationships and Humans Need To Have Is Trust and Honesty Between Each Other.

Honesty Is One Of The Most Important Things A Relationship Really Need To Be Successful.

If You Are Not Honest With Your Intentions From The Beginning, It Will Fail.

This Is One Of The Cornerstones Of Dating (And Also Relationships).

7. Supportiveness

Supporting Him Is Also Crucial In A Relationship.

This Will Not Only Strengthen Your Relationship But It Will Also Encourage You To Try Things On Your Own And Encourage Him To Test New Things.

If He Fails, You Are There To Support Him.

If He Succeeds, You Are There To Celebrate His Victories.

In Short: A Woman Who Supports Her Man Is A Keeper.

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Both Thumbs Up!!!

What Women Are Looking For In A Man

The 7 Personality Traits Women Are Looking for in a Man

1. Intelligence

Just As Important For Men, Intelligence Is A Big Turn On For Women Too.

Intelligence Dignifies A Woman As Well As A Man and Is Always Something To Look For.

2. Humour

Humour Is Another Thing. Women, As Well As Men, Appreciate A Good Sense Of Humour.

If A Man Makes A Woman Laugh She Will Feel Attracted To Him.

3. Respect

A Man Who Treats A Woman With Respect Is Also Something She Will Look For.

Respect Is One Of The Cornerstones Of Dating and Of Relationships (See The Picture Above).

4. Attentiveness

Women Want You To Think About Them and If You Tell Her That You Do Not Like That She Hangs Around This Guy Will Be A Big Thing For Her Because It Means That You Are Thinking About Her.

5. Teasing

If You Tease A Woman A Bit She Will Like It.

Teasing Is One Of The Most Underappreciated Forms Of Relationship Building.

There Is A Reason For This: Most Guys Want To Play It “Nice” And “Safe”.

My Advice Is To Not Go This Route.

I Don’t Mean That You Should Be Mean To Her, Just Do Some Playful Teasing And She Will Tease You Back, Thereby Creating A Connection Between The Two Of You.

It Will Help To Trigger Her Attraction For You.

6. Acting Uninterested

If You Act Uninterested It Will Makes Her Go The Extra Mile To Attract You.

It Might Seem Contradictory To What You Really Want To Happen But If She Has Emotions For You, She Will Try To Force You To See Her.

So Sometimes It Can Be Advisable To Act Uninterested For A While.

7. Be Interested In Her Interests

On The Other End Of The Scale, There Is The Fact That You Really Show Interests In What She Is Interested In.

What Kind Of Hobbies Does She Like?

What Kind Of Pets Does She Have?

This Is One Of The Things I Discovered In My Own Dating Life and That Has Helped Me With Getting Girlfriends Before.

If She Has An Animal, That Can Be Your Way To Start A Conversation.

Most Women Like This And It Is Also Good To Talk About Something Else And Not Just Discussing One Thing All The Time.

Also If She Has A Hobby, Do Some Research About It and Talk A Bit With Her.

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My Next Article Will Be Published On The 29th Of October 2016.

It Will Discuss What You Can Do To Find Love Online.

Happy Dating!

Rickard

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