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The Needy Girlfriend
In Today’s Blog Post, One Of The Stereotypes That We So Often Come Across In Dating Will Be Discussed,
Namely The Needy Girlfriend. She Is Clingy and Constantly Checks Up On You. This Might Actually
Become A Relationship Breaker For Some Men. The Opposite Might Also Apply Which I Will Discuss Below.
Learn More About This Stereotype Below…
What Does Clingy Mean?
First Of All, I Will Quite Briefly Discuss What The Word Clingy Means. Clingy Is Another Word For Needy.
Clingy Means That A Girlfriend (Or A Boyfriend For That Matter) Won’t Leave You Alone.
This Is The Reason Why Some Relationships Breaks, Undoubtedly.
You Can Identify A Clingy Girlfriend By The Way She Behaves. If She Doesn’t Leave You Alone But Constantly Is Texting You, Want To Know What You’re Up To and Isn’t Giving Your Space, She’s The Clingy Type. This Is One Of The Reasons Why Men Pull Away, Which I Will Discuss In Further Detail In The Article On Saturday.
Women (or Men) Becomes Clingy For One Of Two Reasons: Either They Are Insecure/Uncertain Of What She Wants From You Or Her Is A Control Freak, Maybe She Can’t Help It, Maybe She Is Like That Deliberately Due To A Mental Condition.
Needless To Say, This Is, Of Course, The Stereotype, She Is Obsessed With You, To Put It Mildly.
How To Not Be A Needy Girlfriend
If You Are A Needy Girlfriend (Or Boyfriend) and You Do Wish To Break The Cycle Of Neediness, There Are Some Steps You Can Take Actively To Stop Being Clingy and Save Your Relationship. It Can Happen To Everyone, But The Most Important Thing Is That You, First Of All, Acknowledge That You Have Fallen Into The Trap and Is Acting Out The Role Of A Needy Girlfriend.
You Do Not Have To Prove To Him That You Are Worthy To Be His Girlfriend
After Realizing The Problem, The Next Step Is To Understand That You Do Not Need To Prove That You Are Worthy Of Being His Girlfriend. You Are More Precious To Him Than Everybody Else In This World. You Shall Know That Your Level Of Worthiness Is Not Measured By What You Do To Prove To Him Your Undying Love For Him, You Are Not Worthless Without Him Or Even If You Are The Only One In Your Circle Of Friends That Has No Boyfriend, It’s Still Ok. You Are Absolutely Wonderful The Way You Are and Eventually, A Lucky Guy Will Appreciate You For Who You Are. You Shall Never
You Shall Know That Your Level Of Worthiness Is Not Measured By What You Do To Prove To Him Your Undying Love For Him, You Are Not Worthless Without Him Or Even If You Are The Only One In Your Circle Of Friends That Has No Boyfriend, It’s Still Okay. You Are Absolutely Wonderful The Way You Are and Eventually, A Lucky Guy Will Appreciate You For Who You Are. If You Think That You Have To Prove Yourself Worthy Of Being With Him, It’s Not A Healthy Relationship and He
If You Think That You Have To Prove Yourself Worthy Of Being With Him, It’s Not A Healthy Relationship and A Man Who Demands This Is Not Worthy Of Being Your Boyfriend.
Take Small “Breaks” From One Another and Don’t Try To Spend All The Time Together.
A Successful Relationship, In The Long Run, Will Become Even Stronger When You Do Not Spend All The Time Together But Evolves When You Give One Another Enough Space That Allows Both Of You To Develop Your Own Interests, Friendships, and Hobbies Separated From Each Other. Being Away From Each Other Will Help Your Relationship Grow and Develop.
Overanalyzing Everything and Don’t Trust Them Enough
As I Have Written Many Times Before, Trust Is A Major Key To A Successful Relationship. If There Is No Trust, There Is Frankly Quite No Relationship Either. If Your Boyfriend Said That He Was Drinking A Couple Of Beers With The Lads, You Should Give Him The Benefit Of The Doubt and Trust That It Is All He Is Doing.
You Are and Always Will Be You. Invest In Some “Me-Time” For Yourself
Be Nice To Yourself and Give Yourself Some Treats. It Can Be As Simple As Taking A Long Nap, By Developing An Interest or Hobby (An Old or A New One), Meet A New Friend or To Try Something You Always Wanted To Try But Never Felt You Had The Time (or Guts) To Do It. Spending Some Time With Your Girlfriends Will Help Your Relationship To Evolve and Grow Since You Will Become More Self-Confident and Know Your Worth.
Realize That None Of You Is Perfect So Your Relationship Can’t Be That Either
We Are All Human Beings, Imperfect Beings, Who Constantly Do Some Things Wrong.
It Is Absolutely Okay To Screw Things Up, After All, That Is What We Humans Do Best.
Forgiveness Is The Key Here. Men (and Especially Women) Needs To Confess That We Are Not Flawless, No One Of Us Really Are But If We Can Overlook Our Flaws and Forgive One Another When We Do Things Wrong, We Have Come A Long Way. God Constantly Forgives Us, But We Also Owe It To One Another To Forgive Each Other.
Need To Talk With A Professional, Perhaps?
Sometimes, It Can Be Quite Rewarding For Your Own Mental Health To Speak With An Outsider, A Professional Who Will Not Judge You But Rather Provide You With Some Useful Insights and Tips On How To Stop Being Needy. I Strongly Suggest That You Find Someone In Your Own City That You Can Trust. You Can Choose The Yellow Pages Or A Search Engine. It’s Totally Up To You.
Trust The Bible: Love Yourself.
The Holy Bible Has Put An Emphasis On The Fact That You Should Love Yourself For A Good Reason. Women Especially Often Forget To Love Themselves To Often, I Have Seen This Both Privately and Professionally.
So A Piece Of Advice At The End Of This Lengthy Article: Love Yourself.
My Next Post
My Next Post Will Become Available On Saturday The 1st Of April 2017.
It Will Discuss Why Men Pull Away.
Hope To See You Then,
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