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Are You Pushing Him Away Unintentionally​

Are You Pushing Him Away

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In this article, I will reveal why you might unintentionally be pushing the man you love away.

I will reveal the three most common mistakes women do that push him away from you and the love you can give to a man who is worthy and who you know would be perfect for you.

You met this great guy, and things were going in the right direction between the two of you, but all of a sudden, he is out the door and out of your life.

You start thinking to yourself: What did I do wrong?

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Aren’t things great between you and the man you met? Below is some useful information.

The truth is that you might be making one of the mistakes I am about to reveal to you in the rest of the article.

If you know someone who would benefit from the information I am about to share with you, you could use one of the buttons located above or below to share it with her. Because sharing is caring, right?

Men and women have different and unique perspectives on dating and relationships.

It is also the reason why men react differently than you do.

From first date etiquette to when to sleep with their partner, the outlooks are diverse between men and women.

It is also the reason why men and women are dating differently.

Below, you will find three common mistakes women do unintentionally that pushes men away from them.

Because the truth is that when a man leaves you, he has a specific reason to do it, and this is something you need to realize.

The blame is on you and something you did or said, and not his fault at all.

I will now list the three huge mistakes most women do that pushes him away, and are causing you the pain and suffering and stops you from getting the relationship you want and need:

  • You are clingy.
  • Your insecurities
  • You are unhappy without him

All these three mistakes are HUGE and will undoubtedly make a man run the other way, away from you, fast.

If you want to scare men away, keep doing this.

If you want to get into a relationship with a great guy, you should continue to read this article and gain more insights on how to get that relationship you desire and deserve.

I will now reveal how to fix the three mistakes that I listed above.

Why Men Pull Away: You Are Clingy

If there is one thing that makes any man run as fast as he can away from you is if you are clingy.

In his mind being clingy means being needy.

Now, you might object, and say that there’s nothing wrong with being affectionate and although this is true, it frightens him.

Because in his mind, you are trying to remove his independence.

Trust me that is one thing that freaks us, men, out, and that is when we pull away from any woman.

You might just be showing him that he is on your mind all the time.

It is excellent, but that is not what he wants, and in a relationship, it is all about what the other person wants and not what you want, right?

If you give him what he wants, he will get you what you want.

That is the nature of all human relationships.

If he feels smothered by you, he will run away to try to regain his independence, and he does this by pulling away.

You want him to know what you want with this relationship, and although there is nothing wrong with that, all he is looking for, especially at the beginning of the relationship, is some fun.

My best advice to you is to calm down, try to relax, be cool, and collected.

If you want some more tips about not being needy, I would also suggest that you read my article about the needy girlfriend stereotype.

Knowledge is power, and by knowing what he fears, you will know how to avoid becoming a needy or clingy girlfriend, and he will reward you with the relationship you want and desire.

If he knows that you have fallen for you too quickly, he will feel trapped.

The only way he will know this is if you make it known to him that you have fallen for him, of course.

By letting him know about your plans for the future, it will push him away from you and into the arms of another woman who allow him to feel free and satisfies his every need.

That is not something you want, right?

Because if your goals aren’t aligned with his goals, he will pull away and never come back.

At the end of this article, I will give you some more tips to help you, not only from being clingy unintentionally but also how to overcome your insecurities and emotions of unhappiness.

Now, I will discuss another major issue that stops women just like you from being in a happy and loving relationship.

Why Men Pull Away: Your Insecurities

Your insecurities about yourself might be the cause that makes him pull away.

How you think of yourself is affecting the way he looks at you.

Did you know that studies have shown that 97% of all women are unhappy with their bodies at least once a day?

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Are you unhappy with your body? Most women are. But there is help for you which I will reveal a bit further down in this article.

I know it is an insane number, but I just wanted to prove to you that you are not alone in this, you are not the only woman on planet Earth who is feeling insecure about her body.

But in a relationship, it is never a good idea to reveal your own insecurities.

You are only digging a grave for your current relationship when you reveal that to him.

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A good rule of thumb is by not nagging on him every time he talks with an attractive woman or asking him, “Do these jeans make me fat?” all the time.

It is something men hate.

Instead, what I would recommend you to do is to discuss your gym routine and asking him about his gym routine.

Even asking him for some tips are always better than nagging.

If you are into healthy eating, you can discuss this with him if you are comfortable with it.

Always try to talk about yourself positively without nagging.

You see, the problem is that when your insecurities start to show themselves, there isn’t any going back.

Another rule of thumb that I would give you right now is to pretend that every date with your man is the first one.

You would never allow yourself to reveal your insecurities if this was the first date with a man you never met before, right?

What I also recommend you to do is to show him your happy-go-lucky side.

Because this will make him attracted to you, it intrigues him and creates an emotional bond with you that will keep him hooked.

The best cure for low self-esteem or self-love is to boost it.

In this free video presentation, relationship expert Amy North reveals how you can boost your self-esteem right now.*

If that is something you want to know about, you should click the link above and get all the helpful information that Amy shares with you in a down-to-earth, simple, and understandable way.

You won’t be disappointed, I promise you.

You can either stay lonely and miserable. Blaming your misery on the men you are dating, or you can take responsibility for your happiness and finally get the man you deserve, cherishes, and loves you as you are.

The choice is yours.

However, it is not I who should make up my mind and ask myself whether I think I deserve unhappiness or not. It is you.

Watch Amy’s free presentation and boost your self-esteem now.*

I will now address the issue with your unhappiness that might push men away from you.

Why Men Pull Away: Your Unhappiness

Your unhappiness might be the reason why men pull away.

You might be all happy and cheery when he’s in the room, but don’t think for a second that he doesn’t catch your negativity when he’s not in the place because he does.

If he thinks that he is the cause of your unhappiness, this will push him away.

He will feel a lot of pressure on him to keep you content.

The burden will be on his shoulders, and that burden is laid on him by you and your unhappiness.

That is a huge responsibility for anyone, right?

Instead of relying on him to keep you smiling, make the most of your life.

Because when you make the things you love, you will subsequently become a happier, more fun person to be around.

I always say that people, in general, want to be around positive people.

Anyone who will make another human being feeling good and happy about themselves is likely to attract people.

Negativity only wears you and everyone else around you down.

Positivity will improve your quality of life so much more, and it will also improve the overall quality of your relationship.

If you make him feel great, he will stay in the relationship.

For a more in-depth insight on what pushes men away take a moment and watch this free video presentation.*

The Solution to Stop Him from Pushing Away

As I promised you at the beginning of this article, I will now give you the solution to stop him from pushing away.

You see, it is all about the signals you are sending out to him.

In the free video presentation that I have discussed above, you will discover:

  • The secret sequence of words that makes a man’s heart bound to you and only you
  • How to make any man feel a deeper connection to you that goes beyond love and that makes the bear thought of leaving you for another woman completely unimaginable to him
  • What to do to make a man who resented you in the past smile and thinking about you all day long which is the secret sauce to make him fall in love with you

Watch Amy’s free presentation now and stop him from pushing away.*

However, this is only for women who want to:

  • Change her current state of loneliness into a warm, loving, and romantic relationship that you only see in romantic films
  • Overcome her insecurities and make him fall in love with you over and over again
  • What you must do to create emotional satisfaction in his mind which will stop him from ever looking at another attractive woman

Click here to watch the video if this is what you want.*

If that is you, I have described, then, watch the presentation and start to imagine how you finally can find the man of your dreams and get into the rewarding, loving, and passionate relationship that you deserve.

Just imagine how good it would feel to be with a man who is enchanted by you and makes you smile every time he lay his eyes upon you.

Next Article

My next article will be published on the 11th of May 2019.

It will reveal how to get a man that is worthy of your love.

Have an awesome day,

Rickard

About the author: Rickard Is The Head Blogger Of Chi Rho Dating Since Summer 2015 And Is Also The Dating Coach Of The Dating Website ChristianDatingInternational.Com.

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