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In this blog post, I will give my very own personal list of the 5 best icebreakers that I have used with great success with many different women.
Of course, this list is completely free, but if I were to assign a monetary value, it would be close to $4.95; however, you will get it completely free.
As I did with the previous post, where I listed the 5 worst icebreakers, this short article will be a countdown, starting with 5 and ending with the best icebreaker.
You are also invited to share your best icebreakers in the comment field below and on different social media platforms.
I will also leave small comments on each of the 5 best ice breakers below.
Enjoy!
Why A Simple “Hello” Is Not Enough
First of all, I would like to clarify: A plain “Hello” does not count as an icebreaker. It is actually what you say after that initial word that will make or break the ice between two people who have just met for the very first time.
Here are 5 sentences you could say that have worked pretty well for me and others I have helped.
5. Tell me something interesting about yourself.
You probably wouldn’t think this is one of the top 5 icebreakers, but it certainly is. I have found many intriguing facts about the women I have dated in the past, and it is a compelling sentence.
I also want to issue a warning: you might find out things you didn’t think people would tell you, so be prepared for literally everything if you’re asking for this.
4. Mention something important to you.
Write (or say, depending on what kind of chat you’re using) something that is of the utmost importance to you. Here are 3 examples:
- I love walking along the beach at sunset, and maybe you are, too.
- I really enjoy my work as a (your job title goes here). The only thing I’m currently missing is someone to share my lifestyle with. Would you be interested in this?
- I think the environment is a big issue, and we should take care of it much better than we do. After all, this is why God put us on earth in the first place.
This is where you will share a passion, a hobby, or something that not too many people know about you. You should use this with great caution since things that you are really into might sound intimidating to someone you’ve just begun dating.
3. Mention something about yourself!
E.g., I bet you don’t think that I could do it when you first laid eyes on me. But I really enjoy juggling and roller-skating at the same time.
By saying something that not too many people know about your show that you are serious and being open in your mind on the idea of having a serious and fully committed relationship.
2. When I first saw you, I knew I wanted to date you.
This might shock your date, and you should only use it if it’s true. It might sound sleazy, I know, but it’s actually a great opener if you are on a first date. If you are dating online, include something in your profile that makes you want to contact them straight away.
The best icebreaker is still to come, and it is:
1. Your three best qualities in your personality and the three top things you like to do in your spare time.
Yes, this is actually one of the best icebreakers, if not the best one (at least this has always worked its magic for me, and although I can’t guarantee it, I sure hope it will do the same for you).
Being on a first date is really a lot like being interviewed for a new job.
You want to give your date a foretaste of the life that could await him or her if you are selected as their life-long companion.
Don’t Think That The First One You Will Date Will Be The One For You!
The best practice is to use all 5 of the listed icebreakers, but don’t forget to breathe and listen carefully to what your date has to say.
It would help if you always remembered that dating is a marathon, not a competition to reach a certain point in the relationship first.
Dating is something in life where you really need to think a lot about each step of the way.
I won’t lie to you: Yes, there will be failures and heartaches along the way to a successful, exclusive, and long-term relationship.
The same is true in both dating and relationships: Endurance lasts, while making decisions too quickly only leads to breakups.
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