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In this blog post, I will give my very own personal list of the 5 best icebreakers that I have used with great success on many different women.
Of course, this list is completely free but I would like to state that if I would give it a monetary value, it would be close to $149, however, you will get it completely free.
As I did with the previous post where I listed the 5 worst icebreakers, this short article will be a countdown, starting with 5 and ending with the best icebreaker.
You are also invited to share your best icebreakers in the comment field below and on different social media platforms.
I will also leave small comments on each of the 5 best ice breakers below.
Enjoy!
Why A Simple “Hello” Is Not Enough
First of all, I would like to clarify: A plain “Hello” does not count as an icebreaker. It is actually what you say after that initial word that will make or break the ice between two people that have just met for the very first time.
Here are 5 sentences you could say that has worked pretty well for myself and others I have helped.
5. Tell me something interesting about yourself.
You probably wouldn’t think that this is one of the top 5 ice breakers, but it certainly is. I have found many different intriguing facts about women that I have dated in the past, and it is a compelling sentence.
I also would like to issue a warning that you might find out things you didn’t think people would tell you, so you have to be prepared for literally everything if you’re asking for this.
4. Mention something important to you.
Write (or say, depending on what kind of chat you’re using) something that is of the utmost importance to you. Here are 3 examples:
- I love to walk alongside the beach during the sunset, and maybe you are into this too.
- I really enjoy my work as a (your job title goes here). The only thing I’m currently missing is someone to share my lifestyle with. Would you be interested in this?
- I think that the environment is a big issue and that we should take care of it a lot better than we do. After all, this is why God put us on earth in the first place.
This is where you will share a passion, a hobby or something that not too many people know about you. You should use this with great caution since things that you are really into might sound intimidating to someone you’ve just begun dating.
3. Mention something about yourself!
E.g., I bet you don’t think that I could do it when you first laid eyes on me. But I really enjoy juggling and roller-skating at the same time.
By saying something that not too many people know about your show that you are serious and being open in your mind on the idea of having a serious and fully committed relationship.
2. When I first saw you, I knew I’ve wanted to date you.
This is something that might be chocking to your date, and you should only use it if it is the truth. It might sound sleazy, I know, but it’s actually a great opener if you are on a first date. If you are dating online, you should mention something in the profile that made you want to contact them straight away.
The best icebreaker is still to come, and it is:
1. Your three best qualities in your personality and the three top things you like to do in your spare time.
Yes, this is actually one of the best icebreakers, if not the best one (at least this has always worked it’s magic for me and although I can’t guarantee it, I sure hope it will do the same for you).
Being on a first date is really a lot like being interviewed for a new job.
You want to give your date a foretaste of the life that could await him or her if you are selected as their life-long companion.
Don’t Think That The First One You Will Date Will Be The One For You!
The best practice is to use all 5 of the listed icebreakers but doesn’t remember to breathe and listen carefully to what your date has to say.
It would help if you always remembered that dating is a marathon, not a competition for whoever gets to a certain point in the relationship first.
Dating is something in life where you really need to think a lot on each step of the way.
I won’t lie to you: Yes, there will be failures and heartaches along the way to a successful, exclusive and long-term relationship.
The same thing is true both in dating and relationship: Endurance lasts while making decisions too quick only will lead to breaking ups.
Next blog post
My next blog post will be published on Saturday, the 12th of December 2015.
It will be a personal and honest review of a dating product (maybe something for you).
See you then,
Rickard
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