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In this blog post, we will talk about one of the most frequently asked questions: When to call her (a.k.a. your date) after the first date or as we like to call it free dating advice for men and women alike.
Does She Expect Me To Call Her?
The short answer to this question is most definitively: YES!
Women do expect a man to call them after the first date.
So you really should call her.
So How Long Should You Wait Until You Call Her, You Might Want To Know Too?
Well, there is no definitive answer to this question. It actually depends on which weekday it is. If either one of you isn’t working then you may call her at noon or early afternoon.
If both of you are working, try to call after work, you don’t want to be considered rude to your date, disturbing her on work.
If you work in different shifts/have different working hours then try to call her before she begins working.
Another advice is, of course, to call her when you feel it’s the right time. These are mere suggestions and should not be considered to be everlasting truths.
What Should You Ask Her?
You should ask her what she thought of the date and basically, let her do the most of the talking. In the end of the call, you might suggest a second date as well depending on how she considered you and how she thought the first date between you went.
When And Why Should I Call Her?
You are the man, take this as a free dating advice for all men: You are expected to call by the social protocol in our society and it would be in your own interest to call her and listen what she thought of you as well as the date as we discussed above.
The answer to when to call is basically that you should trust your gut feeling and stick to it.
Free Dating Advice For Women
Women might ask questions like “How do I play it cool with a guy I like?” or “How do I make him call me?”. Well, of course, you should let him call you, that is the first and only rule if there should be any.
You may, of course, take the initiative as well but then you might risk that the guy you went out with feel like you emasculating him. This might scare him away, so you don’t go on a second date. If you want a second date, wait for at least two days and then send a text like “What’s up?” or “Has anything happened to you?” to begin a conversation.
These free dating advice for women are not something every society approves of and different values and social protocols might apply within different cultures or countries.
For some nicer free tips, we recommend that you sign up to this mini course that has a lot of helpful products for all women to make use of on dating sites as well as other free sources that you might be able to use.
Free Dating Advice For Men
Well, as we wrote above: You’re the man so you need to “man up” and take the lead on this one, the woman expects you to do it. If you are a shy guy then you may always use the mirror and practice on your own image before you give her a call.
It is also very nice to write things down or practice on what you should say and how you should say it before you call her. Be flexible though since she might not respond in the manner you expected. For some valuable tips for men, we have put together a special mini-course as well.
Minor Changes
We will make some minor changes to our website and this blog. We will add things to our dating 101 mini-course that has been speeded up so that it will only take nine days to complete. With the new things added you might expect a new mail from the mini-course each day for a fortnight.
Next blog post
Our next blog post will be available on 1st of November 2014.
It will be about The Scariest Thing Of All.
Until then,
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