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It is the special day and the special article that will summarize the entire year of 2019 on Chi Rho Dating.

As always, when you look at another year in retrospect, you are quite often amazed when you think back and see how things started and how things ended.

Normally, I start to write this article after Christmas, but this year I decided to begin earlier, so I did start to write it on the 1st of December this year.

When I look at 2019 in retrospect, I am amazed at all the topics I have covered.

Just have a look at everything I have covered below…

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What Happened in January 2019 on Chi Rho Dating?

Quite a lot happened in January 2019 on this blog, Chi-Rho Dating.

It all started with the article match and dating, which covered some of the best dating tips for the new year.

If you’re curious, you can read about Match and Dating here.

I continued to discuss what you need to do to set yourself up for success, which is by far, the most popular article published in January 2019.

This is how you can set yourself up for success in love and dating.

Then it was time to publish my first review in 2019, which also was the first one that I wrote for women.

It was a review about the course Wrap Him Around Your Finger.

In it, I shared some honest insights with my readers and went through a short Q&A session at the end of it.

You can read my entire Wrap Him Around Your Finger review here.

Since I have noticed that more women than men were reading my blog, I decided to continue to give dating tips to women in the following two articles.

They covered what you should do to make him your husband and how to convince him to propose to you.

If you want to experience a never-ending relationship, read this.

Doesn’t that seem like a good idea?

However, if you want to know and understand what will make him your husband, this article will spread some light.

Of course, I could not possibly cover everything in one article.

So, I continued to discuss the fascinating topic about marriage, which should be the end-goal of your dating, after all by asking a question:

What Makes a Man Want to Marry You?

That is the name of the second article, as well as the question I answered.

I ended the month of January by revealing my best social media strategies, and then I started to discuss something that I have purposely avoided discussing on this blog before.

Here are my best social media strategies.

Due to the topic’s controversial nature, I have avoided discussing something that I have seen on forums and other blogs.

But, I decided to leave my own comfort zone by asking you:

Who is Alpha?

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This was my most popular article in January 2019.

What I Covered in February 2019.

In February 2019, I was introduced to my current girlfriend by a mutual friend, and we started to talk.

Almost immediately, I understood that this would become very serious quite quickly since both of us are mature and have the same goals in life.

While this happened in my life, what did I write about on this blog?

Since I started to discuss the concept of alpha and beta males, with a clear reference to certain animals, I started February 2019 with a review for men.

This was my first review for men in 2019.

It will unveil the secrets of becoming an alpha male.

However, I have to say that I was positively surprised since it wasn’t just about the same thing that I read in the forums and other blogs that I mentioned earlier.

It was a pleasant surprise, and I will discuss this topic more in the future.

Then I ended the discussion about alpha males by writing about developing the alpha male confidence you need to be successful.

I then turned my attention back to my female readers by sharing some insights about dating someone close by.

I intentionally called it What to Do When Dating a Nearby Boyfriend.

Since I am an administrator of a Facebook group, I noticed that some men did not know how to approach women on social media.

For this reason, my last topic in February covered this topic.

In my article, The Wrong Way of Approaching Women on Social Media, I cover something to remember when you contact women on social media and what you should always avoid doing.

It is based on my own experience and some best practices that have developed and that I have noticed lead to dates and relationships.

I haven’t revealed the best article in February yet on purpose.

So, I decided to do this as the last thing before I move on to March.

Which one was my best article in February 2019, then?

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These Topics Were Covered in March 2019.

In March 2019, I covered the following topics on this blog:

  • Best icebreakers on dating sites
  • Emotional affairs and how they affect your relationship
  • Dating with anxiety and all of the issues you might face then
  • Dating with depression and how you can turn a weakness into a strength
  • How dating someone who is a narcissist will undoubtedly change you
  • How dating sites make money
  • How you can benefit from the law of attraction when you are dating
  • What happens in a relationship when a man establishes an emotional connection with a woman
  • Why dating sites doesn’t seem to work any longer

I have listed them in the alphabetic order above, but that is actually not in the same order as they were published.

As you probably noticed, I did not publish any review in March 2019.

But, of course, there was a winner, and I couldn’t believe how well it outperformed the other articles when I looked at the statistics.

To make it somewhat exciting, I decided to do a countdown.

I will begin the countdown with the least popular article and then end it with the most popular article on this blog in March 2019.

My least popular article covered how dating sites make money.

This was not a huge surprise to me since dating apps are more popular to use nowadays.

For this reason, you shouldn’t be surprised either when I reveal the article that landed in eighth place in March: Why Dating Sites Don’t Work.

As you noticed above, I covered some more serious topics in March too.

In the 7th place, we find the article about dating with depression.

Nothing is depressing about that.

Before we dive into the five most-read articles published in March 2019, I have to let you know who finished in 6th place.

Don’t get too emotional about this, okay?

In the 6th place, we find When a Man Establishes an Emotional Connection with You.

It has been time to break the ice and reveal the five most-read articles.

As you probably, already had figured out when I tried to crack a joke and be funny, the article that came in fifth place was:

Best Icebreakers on Websites.

This makes it the best article of all three published around that topic in March 2019.

The two following places are occupied with more serious topics.

Dating with Anxiety (63) is closely followed by the third most popular article written in March 2019: How Dating a Narcissist Changes You (64).

Okay, now there are only two articles left.

The second most popular article surprised me a while.

Not as much as the article that landed in the first place, but this article also opened up some guest blogging opportunities for me, which I will try to do more of in 2020.

Let me ask you a critical question:

Are you having an emotional affair?

Now, you understand that the most read article attracted a lot of attention to it, right?

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This is the cover image of the most popular article on my blog that I wrote in March 2019

If you want to read about how you can use the law of attraction to get the love you desire and deserve, you can do it right here.

As a matter of fact, this was the first one of many articles that I would be writing throughout the year, and that would become quite popular, especially with my female readers.

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What Happened in April 2019?

In April 2019, which was another fabulous month for me, I began publishing an article about guardian angels, which doubled as a review.

I asked: Who is Your Guardian Angel?

The answer is not found inside of that article but in your heart and what angelic numbers you see or not.

If you don’t know, I suggest you read my article.

April could be dubbed as my “How to”-month, where I published many articles that all started with the words “how-to.”

A total of five articles were published with that beginning.

However, the best performing article was a guest blog post by Leo Corado called A Guide to Chat with Women Online.

It is also, by far, the most read article in 2019 on my entire blog.

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The Cover Image of the Best Performing Article Not Only in April But in the Entire Year 2019.

My best “how-to” article was the one that discusses How to Create an Emotional Attraction in Her.

The other ones discussed various topics such as: How to get a hot girl, How to get a girl to like you, How to get out of a friend zone, and How to attract someone in conversation.

However, one that did better than all of them was my article about Funny Texts for Her.

I ended the month by publishing the article Alpha Male Personality.

What I Discussed in May 2019.

In May, I turned my attention to the female readers of this blog.

I started to discuss how women can date good men online, and I then asked whether a woman can push a man away unintentionally or not.

However, women did not seem to like them as much as other articles.

After this, I continued to discuss how to make a man worthy of a woman’s love before discussing the overall concept of love.

These were, much to my surprise, the most popular of all articles in May.

The most popular of these were also the most popular of all articles written in May 2019 and are called How to find love again.

My article First Date Etiquette is solely responsible for bringing the most visitors from social media and search engines since I had noticed that this particular phrase was giving me a lot of visits to this blog.

What I didn’t realize then was that it would help me produce a second article that would be published in July.

Those two articles have been shared a lot on social media as well.

Another great one was my article covering how you could turn any “numbskull” into your Prince Charming.

I am, of course, referring to Three Texts to Turn Him into Prince Charming.

One of my personal favorites to write about is undoubtedly first dates.

For this reason, I wrote not one but two articles on this topic in April. The first one was What to Do on First Dates, and it was followed by Places to Visit on First Dates.

I share some ideas and tips for your first dates in both articles to help you make the most of them.

Hopefully, you will be able to get a second date with the same person.

June 2019 Was Amazing.

Then, summer started with an amazing article that was published on the very first day of summer.

Many of my female readers have sent me emails asking the same question repeatedly, and for this reason, I decided to write an entire article about the question they wanted to be answered.

What Causes an Emotional Connection with a Man?

Then, I turned my attention to infidelity or cheating once again.

I was contacted by someone on social media who wanted me to write some more content on this topic, and they also wanted to get some attention to their great service, which I strongly encourage.

It made me write the article Surviving Infidelity: Why Do Guys Cheat (on a Woman They Claim to Love).

That article is the most popular of all articles written in June 2019.

It is one of the articles that I am very proud of ever having written since it covers the topic in so much depth.

I strongly encourage you to read it.

After that article, I focused on the Fear of Failure, which all humans have to deal with in all aspects of life.

That fear might be what keeps you from finding the love you know in your heart, desire, and the love you deserve and owe to yourself to find.

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The most popular article in June 2019.

In three articles, I wrote about something very dear to me, which is close to my own heart; Namely how to find an Asian girlfriend.

The first two articles covered Chinese women particularly.

The first article was named Dating Chinese Women, and the other one was Some Tips for Dating Chinese Women.

Both cover some information on where men can find a Chinese woman.

Of all three, the most popular one was White Man Asian Woman Relationships.

That article is the second most popular article that was published in June.

It covers how men can find a healthy and happy relationship with an Asian woman, regardless of her country.

Then, I published What Do Guys Think Is Romantic?

In that article, I cover some things men think are romantic that women don’t.

I also got a special invitation to help raise awareness of a new dating course for women.

For this reason, I reviewed and wrote a couple of articles about that dating course to notify my female readers about the course and who I would recommend joining that brand new course.

I am, of course, referring to my Make Him Worship You Review.

Have you ever felt like a man doesn’t get emotionally involved in the relationship and doesn’t know what to do about it?

If you just said yes, you want to read my review or one of my articles.

As I mentioned above, I also wrote the articles How Can I Make Him ‘Worship’ Me? and What Makes a Man Commit (to the Woman He Loves)?

What Happened During The First Six Months in 2019?

During the first six months of 2019, I covered many different aspects of dating, as you probably already have noticed.

I also decided to start using Pinterest and YouTube. Still, I didn’t do anything with them during the first six months since I focused mostly on creating high-quality articles, which I continued to do throughout 2019.

What I Covered in July 2019.

In July, I started by covering What Men Secretly Want in a Woman.

I also started to create some YouTube videos and made a schedule for my YouTube channel.

Of course, I started to put some pins on my Pinterest account and getting involved in that community since I noticed that my dating tips for women needed some attention.

One of the things I had noticed was that this blog started to get some visitors from the search phrase First Date Etiquette for Women.

For this reason, that was the second article that I published in July 2019.

I mostly focused on my female readers in July 2019, and I also published most of my videos for women on my YouTube channel.

July was the month where I gave the most attention to my female readers.

The only article that was published for men in July was Where to Get a Girlfriend.

Even if I focused on women mostly, there was another exception as well.

I also covered How to Write an Icebreaker for Your Dating Profile, which shares some tips on how to write a powerful icebreaker message for both men and women.

But, as I have written repeatedly, I focused on women mostly, and I did end July by writing these three articles:

The first article in August continued to discuss something that I know many women are struggling with.

What I Discussed in August 2019.

Many women are struggling with attracting the right kind of men.

For this reason, I started August by writing about just that in my article Attract a Man Through His Ego, where I reveal a compelling method to attract men and that I myself am living proof that it is working on men.

I then focused even more on attraction, specifically the law of attraction and how you use it to attract your ideal partner.

Is There a Law of Love? We discussed exactly that.

Then, I wrote and published a review, which also happens to be the most popular article in August 2019.

I am, of course, referring to the Manifestation Magic Review.

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The most popular and most-read article was published in August 2019.

I also published a second review, The Ex-Factor Review, to help anyone get their ex back do it.

Then I focused on social media and finding love by leveraging social media, which you might have noticed if you are a frequent reader of my blog.

That was the reason why I published How to Find Love on Social Media.

I ended August by writing about How to Get Your Ex Back and get your ex-girlfriend back.

September Changed Everything.

I faced a major problem in September 2019.

For some reason, I couldn’t log in to my blog, which affected everything, which made me lose some of the rankings on my articles that I have fought hard to earn for the last three years.

I had to decide what I should do next, and then I made a decision.

Naturally, I thought about giving up for a second, but thanks to my hosting company, HostGator, and my own stubbornness, I was up and running within 48 hours again.

It took me a little while to restore everything, but now it works like a charm.

For this reason, I was able to publish How to Get Your Ex-Boyfriend Back, Relationship Rules for Men and Women, and Attraction Secrets Revealed.

Then, I also published How to Avoid the Friend-Zone, revealing how men and women can avoid being put in that dreadful place.

I realized that I needed to focus a bit more on men, which I did for the remainder of the year, and especially in September and October, I gave men a lot of attention.

My new focus started with a review, namely…

After that, I needed a short break, so I didn’t publish anything for two whole weeks.

What Was Different in October?

October was the month when I only published 5 articles.

I started with an article for my female audience, namely How to Attract Men.

In that article, I do share some tips that I think women will appreciate.

Then, I decided to put my entire focus on positivity.

My article about the Power of Positivity is, in fact, one of the most shared during the entire year of 2019.

It discusses how you can use positivity to attract positive persons into your life and your love life, which is based on my saying: Positivity attracts positivity while negativity only attracts negativity.

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My most popular article written and published in October 2019 was a review of a dating product for men.

The Obsession Method Review covers how men can make a woman fall in love with them by changing one thing in their entire approach to women, love, dating, and relationships.

After that one, I focused entirely on helping men.

I did this in my last two articles of the month, called How to Make Her Chase You and How to Turn Her On.

These articles are pretty self-explanatory, wouldn’t you agree?

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My most popular article that was written and published in October 2019 was this review.

November 2019 Was Naughty November

I will go through the articles for both November and December in the order they were published since they haven’t really had that much time to gain enough readers to determine which are the most popular ones.

In November, I decided to be a little bit naughty.

So that I could be nicer in December and publish other things that I know my readers will love at the beginning of 2020.

The second guest article, by Marie Collar, was published on my blog, which is called What Are the Real Signs That He’s Cheating on You?

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Marie Collar wrote the second guest blog post of 2019.

November started with How to Make a Woman Want You and was followed by another “How to”-article, namely how to Make Her Miss You.

They were a continuation of my review that I published in October.

Then, I decided to give some Dating Advice For Shy People.

After that, it was the guest post’s turn, and then I decided to make another How-to- article.

That is why I published How to Kiss a Man.

Then I returned to one of the things that I discussed, especially during the autumn, and discussed where men could find hot girls.

I did this in my article Where to Get Hot Girls.

Since I had noticed how powerful and popular the guest post had become, I decided to write a few lines about it myself.

For that very reason, I wrote and published How Cheating Starts.

That article is probably the most extensive about cheating that I have ever written about this particular topic. For that reason, I highly recommend it to anyone who wants to discover signs of a cheating partner.

Naughty November ended with the publishing of my review of Lawrence Lanoff’s Language of Lust.

Then, there was only one month left in 2019.

December 2019: The Merriest Month of All

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Is this the most impressive article in December 2019? Find out below…

I can already inform you that December started quite impressive.

It started with publishing the articles How to Impress a Woman, followed by Ways to Impress a Woman on the First Date.

Pretty impressive, if you ask me as well as my readers who loved them.

In late November, I discovered that one search term helped people come to my site, so I discovered to write an article about it.

For this reason, I wrote 10 Dating Places to Go to (on a Date).

Even though the article is pretty self-explanatory, I will inform you that it talks about ten places that I would recommend for a date.

Since I like to create lists of various things, I enjoyed writing them.

Then, I tried to focus on something more fun by suggesting some Fun Date Ideas for your next date.

Since I have noticed that the two most popular articles from 2018 still have helped me generate a lot more visitors, I decided to expand on one of them and write four new articles for women.

I asked my experts, and they all said that one of the most important things women are struggling with is the sense of losing control of the relationship.

If you want to take back control of your relationship, you will love it.

At least, you will like the first one a lot more than the other three articles that I also published in December 2019.

One of the largest trends that I have noticed is questions.

If I write a question in my newsletter, more people will open it than if I would write a How-to Guide.

Likewise, my articles that ask questions get a lot more readers than the other ones.

One of the biggest questions that a woman can ask herself, especially if she wants to get back with her ex-boyfriend, is What Can I Do to Get Him Back?

That was exactly the kind of question that I decided to answer in that article.

My next article covered a different female frustration.

Women who are in a long-distance relationship with a man will not just feel like they need to be in control but may also second-guess themselves whether they can Keep Him Interested or not.

I felt like I could offer some knowledge on this and consulted my own girlfriend for both that one and the next article.

That was my last regular article for the year, as well.

It had a more provocative title from the start, but I decided to rename it to something that people will actually be searching for.

What I am referring to is my article Hero Instinct Triggers.

That is not only a long article but also offers helpful tips for women who want to trigger the so-called hero instinct in a man.

I have also noticed that more people are watching my videos.

For this reason, I have already decided that I need to make a lot more videos in 2020 than I did in 2019.

Most of my articles are around 1,000-1,500 words long.

However, I ended 2019 by publishing the longest article of the entire year, and it is the one you are reading right now with 4,600 words.

Before I end it, I will tell you a few things that will happen in 2020.

First, however, I strongly suggest that you share this article with as many people as possible, and preferably by using this pre-written tweet:

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This cover of 2019’s last post is also the one that is the last featured image of the decade.

What Will Happen in 2020

Instead of writing another article about what will happen in 2020, I decided to jot down a few lines of what I already know will happen.

As I told you above, I know three things that will happen in 2020:

  1. I will write articles around dating as questions
  2. I will create more videos
  3. I will share my articles more as well

I have also decided that the headline where I discuss my next article will no longer be a part of my blog.

It doesn’t provide any value to my reader, so I decided to skip it.

I will write more posts around topics that men and women are interested in, and I will review new products.

The blog will try to open up to more guest writers as well.

I have decided so far about what will happen in 2020 on this blog, at least.

However, there is one thing to do before I end this.

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Next Article

My next article will be published on the 1st of January 2020.

It will discuss the best dating sites for beginners.

As I told you above, it is the last time you will see this headline on this blog, at least for a while.

I wish you a great finish of 2019 and a happy new year in 2020.

See you then,

Rickard

About the author: Rickard has been the chief blogger of Chi Rho Dating since the summer of 2015 and the dating coach of the dating website ChristianDatingInternational.Com since 2013. Rickard has been featured on DatingNews.Com.

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